Showing posts with label sorry. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sorry. Show all posts

20 December 2010

Cards for everything


When you spend in England enough time how to be part of the society you will begin to get a lot of greeting cards and you will realise about the importance of them.

In England you always will find a section in every supermarket, in every single store, you will also find some specialized stores fully selling greeting cards. You can find several categories such as Christmas, Thanksgiving, Birthday Cards, Friendship, Thank You, Love, Sorry, Get Well, Party Invitations, Anniversary, Congratulations... even you can find cards to say you are angry-upset or delicate matters such as religion, sex or Gay-Lesbian, you will always find the right card for the feeling you are looking for. At the beginning this was really strange for me, as well as a friend who was travelling around Spain told me he didn't understand why he hadn't found any card shop there.

To be honest when I was a child I remember sending-receiving Christmas cards between family, it was always nice to get some of them but nowadays are just an article in disuse, now everybody gets a lot of e-cards or emails with impersonal messages, we have lost the illusion to buy a card, an envelope and write a nice phrase.

At this point I think, why English people is still using this amazing way to communicate feelings but then they just write a few words ("happy birthday", "I am sorry", "thank you", "Merry ") ??? If you ask them, surely their answer would be:

If I have to write hundreds of cards, won't expect that I will be funny and original...

10 December 2010

I'm sorry

Before I came to England the word "sorry" was for me the easiest word to learn and the hardest word to say, but once you are here you realise that the only thing you have to learn is how many times you have to say it and always be ready to use it.



This word has too many things behind its appearance,

Firstly, as I said you always have to be ready to use it any time, even in the most stupid of situations because otherwise it could be interpreted as very rude.

Secondly, you can hear one million times the words "Sorry" and "Please" and nothing has to do with famous English manners. On most occasions when somebody use "Please" really is demanding something and when somebody use "Sorry" you know they are not feeling anything at all about what they did. I mean, if someone hit you with intention, you couldn't ask for explanation if he has already said "Sorry" before because you don't have nothing to do when someone look at you smiling and telling the magic word.

And finally, in the other hand you will find people that in spite of it was your fault, they will say "Sorry" too, in that moment you will think the situation is completely surrealist.

As conclusion, it doesn't matter the meaning or the context, just say Sorry.